Lunes, Oktubre 13, 2014

Gone Girl

GONE GIRL. You don't know what you've got til it's ...


After more than four months of exhaustive schooling due to research study, course requirements which are all subsequently of the same deadline to beat so we really need to rush and most of all my dramatic college buddies which always makes the ride worth riding for because of the different cliché that were all overwhelmingly fun of hearing, finally, we are set to indulge our semestral break. The start of this long vacation for many has long been waited for to set different get away plans, reunions and mini parties to celebrate few days of vacation. Adding on the bucket list of reasons to celebrate this break is also about having good grades upon receiving our class cards and of course a boom in ending first semester on our last college years. Gasp, I just can't wait to have my graduation day and end up my college years but before that I still need to fulfill one more semester that concludes my years of extensive education in the field of teaching through the practice teaching. Before my excitement comes to be officially called as 'Sir Eldrin' and discern the feeling every time I stand at the center of every classroom, let me first gratify myself for a few days of stress free and worry free without thinking of how unlucky they're to meet me (just kidding)- by having a good view with different movies and books to overthrow myself out of boredom rather than taking selfies which my social media viewers may just cause such aghast and dismay for their day HAHAHA- and post like: “That selfie ruins my day” or “God, can anybody of you teach him how to use filters when taking selfie.” HAHAHA.

Nonetheless, today I just finished watching one of I may say as a must watched movie of October 2014 which is Gone Girl. To my surprise this is a novel by Gillian Flynn adapted into a movie directed by David Fincher. The story of the movie was impressive adding up how Amy Dunne (Rosamund Pike) try to bring up and actually create the mystery of the story to his husband Nick Dunne played by Ben Affleck. The impressive story line makes me to pound the keyboard about how they bring up insanity because of love or the effect of love to insanity. What ever of the two, I'm finely sure of how the twist and revelations makes the two-hour movie a must watch movie.

Let's start this by the five years marriage of Amy and Nick. It's just when the boy really don't care of how woman or wife feels over the course of their marriage that something is wrong and their relationship is for actual penetration and manifestation for the becoming of sex. Tell me of how many movies or realities that draws up the story of infidelity that leads at the end to either being separated, imprisoned or murdered. In this movie, from a slight twist of reality comes a great turn over how a wife will desperately becomes logical in creating a puzzle to the mysterious gone of Amy.

Being the gone girl, Amy, for about thirty days that puts Nick into scandalous allegations fabricating him as the most guilty on the gone of Amy jumping into a conclusion by many specially the media that he kills his own wife is absolutely a distressing part for Nick. It was a total turn into his life putting him on the throne of judgment every day of his life as he abdicate an enigma into something he never imagine could come into him one day. Definitely, the puzzle Amy created is impressive out of anguish and desperation to the acts of his husband towards her. A surprising confession of divorce on the day of their five year wedding anniversary turns out into a total scrap as everything was really startled by the gone of the girl. Never envision by Nick, it was now the mysterious case of the gone girl Amy.

Writing on a diary by Amy over the progression of their marriage comes into the latter part of her diary entry the faulty path she is about to fabricate in response to the surprising confession of Nick which is about divorcing. This is the point know of how the viewers can fully comprehend the essence of the investigation without finding any clue that leads to its closing. Absolutely wicked how Amy carefully and indecisively plan every single way of the track on how he can Nick suffer from his own dilemma. Having every single way of evidence pointing out to Nick's actions more or less was throughly bring up like be friending her stupid pregnant neighbor and telling she's pregnant since America loves pregnant woman, draining her toilet bowl for some urine sample from a stupid pregnant neighbor as a specimen for pregnancy test, blood letting from her to disperse from the floor and even in the sink and later on cleaned and furnished as a great means for crime operatives deeper investigation out of direct blood evidence and many more. This were all stupefy as she made it all orderly unto her plans. Having said, there are more things I'm sure you're now excited to unearth from the story even her ex boyfriend were she used as a boy toy and later on killed for the success of her insanity to Nick.

From this movie, I just realized how powerful love can drive to every person specially to the one who give their hundred percent true love to their partners. I therefore conclude that too much love can lead to insanity and insanity can lead to something outrageous. Outrageous to the sense that love will over rate to kill anybody at one's own pleasure. This is a movie of legality, media and psychology. To bring up an erudite work like this one transfuse with so much element of a good movie is something you shouldn't never miss. This has the lesson of how intimate relationship needs healthy communication, respect to one's socio and economic status, counterbalance decisions on different matters specially concerning about family's life and of course the sensitivity each has between each others to fathom because even five years of marriage doesn't guarantee a divine transcendent of love to one another unless you wish to look for more girls after you have a gone girl HAHAHA!



Huwebes, Oktubre 9, 2014

Forgive and Forget


GREEN Rose. The color of forgiveness


I'm pretty much sure that every body is accustom to a famous saying “to forgive and to forget.” In the course of our living existence here on earth, there comes a certain time in our life that we felt broken with our hearts in great lost and souls in great peril. Forming in different ways- parents, friends and lovers relationships- things becomes very hard for us to accept and also to move on. To forget either good or bad memories is awful much more to forgive specially when pride and ego fly over one's mind. A big polarity is when one says “I do” from “I will.” It's like eating every letters of the word without procuring what it exude to say.

To have all of this in context, I believe that it's only a matter of choice to forgive and to forget. It's such a juxtapose to say “forgive them and let go of what happen” when you your self do not know how to work things out. Over the past few months, big gap of indignation and misunderstanding was fabricated that becomes a cause of bigger problems. For me I see it as a problem because I almost frame it on my mind to let go of what we've been through (if there is) and have a common denominator that I and them do not need approval to exist and permission to subsist. This I guess is a good resolution for both parties to make without lengthening the tension anymore. In other words, to put relationship into an end. As easy as that makes at least an ease to the pain both are experiencing (if there is again).

Upon framing my mind to such operation, I realized a lot of things. This are decisions that I'll regret for eternally. It such a bad decision to make simply on the basis of my own emotion. I've become selfish and egocentric without trying to listen and understanding what it takes to be on their position. I did not read between the lines but rather scan every lines because of the emotion that first evince over me. It such a shame to articulate that I allow my emotion to become my master manipulating myself. More over, my weaknesses has inflict great pain to me. Nonetheless, things are not yet over. Its like yesterday that I'm playing with the song 'Starting Over Again.'

While pounding the keyboard for this, I just fathom how immature I am to let such situation rolling for a long time. Maybe because of the reasons I've mentioned but human instinct still runs on my veins (because I'm ¾ animal HAHAHA) to forget things and soon to forgive. Above all, what's more important is that I do something to free out and get lost from the misery I myself has foist. It's hard for me in the first place but as I said, it's only a matter of decision on what's at the tip of our nose. Unleashing your personality once in a while into a different kind of personality unknown from many is not a diminishing factor to your embodied persona. Certainly, it's not a diminishing factor but rather a bonus to the degree of stupendous aura you have that corroborate over the time. With hearts-on-and-minds-on, things will surely be interconnected and ready to compensate to meet the line.

Each day of our life we're confronted with different kinds of dilemmas and quandary where we just wish that all of these things happening will come into its finale. Whether we like it or not, heartaches are all inexorable. This phenomenon happening to us has its own rationale for us to find out. In finding out what the reason behind all of this, let us not forget that this big things makes life worth remembering and worth the ride. Let this be a milestone for us to learn new things and most importantly to reflect also that it takes two to tango. Also remember that problems makes a nonpareil equalizer to life's equilibrium on its humongous astonishment.